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"My girlfriend is a bit shy in bed. She refuses to come out from the blankets. She does not want to play naughty games with me. How can I get her to relax & be more intimate?". Does this dialogue seems to be yours?

The important questions to be answered first are "Is she confortable with you? Is she interested to go ahead with you?". If you are sure that the answers to above two questions is "Yes", read further otherwise better to leave her this time atleast.

Definition of "Shy" could be different for you and for your girlfriend. The behaviour which you are assuming as "Shy", could be a part of teasing games she is playing with you. She may be less experienced than you. She may also be interested to go wild with you, but she may not be known of various games and henceforth is feeling nervous.

Make her feel sexy & beautiful - soft kisses, humble tough & hug, candle light dinner with wine may help you for that. Talk about her body and shapes - she should feel sexy about herself. Play some music with nice room freshners. (Don't forget to use body deos or both of your moods can be led down).

Make sure you share enough conversations beforehand to let her have open discussions with you before going in for the play. Tell her your likes & dislikes, softer & naughty side of yours, your views on sex & love, give chances for her to talk.

Tell her what you would like to do with her, her body parts (with a soft touch), what you want her to do. Make her understand how good it will be. Discover touch points.